Volunteering
I am often in the position of
coordinating volunteers for different things. Sometimes that is a very
difficult job. Even when I have a potential volunteer list, it can be tough to
get people to commit. Often it is the
last moment before they say yes. Often it is after several emails and/or phone
calls. When I have to make several
contacts several times, it makes my job so much tougher. It also takes more
time.
I know people are busy. I know
people have varying other priorities. And I know sometimes they have to say no.
I understand those things. But I also know people can do what they really want
to do. I also believe more of us need to be giving of our time and talents to
things we believe in.
I know when I volunteer in areas
that are important to me, I usually meet other like-minded people and some of
them have become friends over the years. I also feel a sense of satisfaction
for contributing to a cause I believe in. I feel empowered that I can make a
difference even in a small way. It fills
me up to show others I care.
There are so many ways you can
volunteer. There are so many needs out there. Some of the areas you can
volunteer in are lots of fun, too.
What are your passions? What do
you love? What wrong do you want to
change? What do you enjoy? What kind of things are you good at? Where could you
make a difference?
If, and when, you do sign up to
volunteer, tell them what you’re willing to do. Give them an idea of how much
time you can give. Tell them when you are able to do it. Don’t make them beg
you to do it. It is so hard to be in the position of asking over and over for
people to help.
If you serve with a willing
spirit, it is such a blessing to everyone involved. Serving grudgingly is still
service, but steals the joy from it. If you really can’t or don’t want to, don’t
let the person asking ask again and again before you say no. Say no if that’s
what you are really planning to do anyway. Then you won’t be irritated by the
persistent asking and the person calling won’t have to repeat their call and
waste theirs and your time.
Volunteering is expected in our
family. It is something we do. All of our adult children still do it as they
grew up with it and knew it as a part of their lives. It can enrich your life,
provide you with interesting opportunities, and give you new people in your
life. It is worthwhile. It is rewarding.
Next time you see a need,
surprise someone and ask how you can help. You don’t have to wait to be asked.
If you are asked, seriously consider saying yes. You don’t have to say yes
every time, but try it! Just do it! Volunteer with a smile and enjoy the
experience.
