Volunteering

Volunteering

I am often in the position of coordinating volunteers for different things. Sometimes that is a very difficult job. Even when I have a potential volunteer list, it can be tough to get people to commit.  Often it is the last moment before they say yes. Often it is after several emails and/or phone calls.  When I have to make several contacts several times, it makes my job so much tougher. It also takes more time.

I know people are busy. I know people have varying other priorities. And I know sometimes they have to say no. I understand those things. But I also know people can do what they really want to do. I also believe more of us need to be giving of our time and talents to things we believe in.

I know when I volunteer in areas that are important to me, I usually meet other like-minded people and some of them have become friends over the years. I also feel a sense of satisfaction for contributing to a cause I believe in. I feel empowered that I can make a difference even in a small way.  It fills me up to show others I care.

There are so many ways you can volunteer. There are so many needs out there. Some of the areas you can volunteer in are lots of fun, too.

What are your passions? What do you love?  What wrong do you want to change? What do you enjoy? What kind of things are you good at? Where could you make a difference?

If, and when, you do sign up to volunteer, tell them what you’re willing to do. Give them an idea of how much time you can give. Tell them when you are able to do it. Don’t make them beg you to do it. It is so hard to be in the position of asking over and over for people to help.

If you serve with a willing spirit, it is such a blessing to everyone involved. Serving grudgingly is still service, but steals the joy from it. If you really can’t or don’t want to, don’t let the person asking ask again and again before you say no. Say no if that’s what you are really planning to do anyway. Then you won’t be irritated by the persistent asking and the person calling won’t have to repeat their call and waste theirs and your time.

Volunteering is expected in our family. It is something we do. All of our adult children still do it as they grew up with it and knew it as a part of their lives. It can enrich your life, provide you with interesting opportunities, and give you new people in your life. It is worthwhile. It is rewarding.

Next time you see a need, surprise someone and ask how you can help. You don’t have to wait to be asked. If you are asked, seriously consider saying yes. You don’t have to say yes every time, but try it! Just do it! Volunteer with a smile and enjoy the experience.